Embodiment Allows You to Becoming an Energetic Match to Your Ideal Clients [ep. #112]
Hello lovely lady and welcome to Higher Self & I!
If you have been around for some time, you know that I talk about embodiment and becoming an energetic match to your ideal client all the time. And there is a reason for it. Because it works! I do it, my clients do it and it just freaking works! So if you want to attract high caliber, high-paying clients who will show up every time, do the work, and don’t even flinch when you say the number of the investment of working with you, then you need to start speaking to THAT EXACT next-level client.
You need to start embodying what you preach through your content, through your actions, and through how you show up online. I want you to enter that magnetic energy that will bring your ideal clients TO YOU. You are probably thinking: “Yes, Bec, that sounds great.
But how the heck do I do that?!” I’m glad you asked because I tell you all about it in today’s podcast episode! Tune in as I share with you how I support my clients in becoming an energetic match for their ideal clients, why embodiment works, how you can start showing up as the higher self today, and much more!
Topics covered on Becoming an Energetic Match:
My very first boujie event in the UK! What was it like and how can you attend the next event.
How did I help my client to find a new ideal client that feels more aligned?
How do you step into your new reality where you get to work with your ideal clients?
Calling in ideal clients through positioning and messaging.
Why do your clients *really* invest in you?
What role plays belief systems in the process of attracting your ideal clients?
Supporting clients in becoming an energetic match through their content and how they show up online.
How does embodiment allow you to become an energetic match to your ideal clients?
My final food for thought about embodiment.
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“People invest by the way you hold yourself. People invest by the vibe they feel from you online, and people invest from seeing you embody the reality they desire.“ - Rebecca Haydon
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[00:00:00] Welcome to The Higher Self and I your go-to podcast that will release you of your victim mindset and become your one-way ticket towards the mind-blowing results you desire in your life and your business. I'm your host, Rebecca Haydon, mindset and Business Mentor. Ready. You unlock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be.
[00:00:37] A badass, CEO, who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life. Ready to find out what life could be like if you just did the thing. Let's go baby. Hello, beautiful, beautiful lady. Welcome back to Hi Self and I, I hope you're having a lovely day. I certainly am. I have just come back off my event, my very first UK event, which was absolutely.
[00:01:07] Just mind blowing. I don't really have the words to to explain how amazing it was to be in the room with the most incredible women who supported each other, who supported themselves, went through the breakthroughs, had the aha moments. I'm still thinking about it now. By God. It was incredible. If you have seen it over all over my social media, um, You will know exactly the vibe that I went for, but oh my God, the, the space was bougie af and just the whole feel of it was just so amazing, so, so amazing that I cannot wait to do the next one.
[00:01:45] Probably coming around March. End of March, April time, if not looking into May. Um, so if you looked and saw and got massive fomo about not being at the event, which I know there will be people out there with fomo cuz I would've had FOMO looking at my stories this weekend. Um, make sure you head to the link in my bio.
[00:02:07] I'm gonna pop a little subscription. Um, For you to go onto an email list so you can make sure that you are first to know about the events, the where's the whens, when it's dropping. So just go to the show notes and pop your email there and I can be the first, you know, to tell you. But anyway, let's dive in to today's podcast.
[00:02:26] Now, today's podcast has actually, um, been inspired. By one of my clients as most of my podcasts are. They're either inspired by my clients, what my clients are going through, what I'm going through, or what my community and what are you guys are going through. So that's why I like to speak right to your hearts and to your souls and to your head.
[00:02:45] So you always are like, Becky, are you in my head? Well, that is why, and we're actually talking about speaking directly to that next level client because you want to attract high quality. High caliber, high paying clients who don't have hesitations, right? You want to be in that magnetic energy. You want to be attracting the type of clients who do the work, who show up for themselves, who.
[00:03:18] Invest in the way that they know and own it from a real growth perspective. That's the kind of client that I love bringing into my business, and I want you to be able to do the same. Now actually, we've been on this journey, my client, and my client and I, and we've really been shifting her messaging and her positioning behind who she's speaking to and actually.
[00:03:43] Prior to us working together and probably for about two, three months of us working together, she was talking to one specific ideal client, which was fine. However, she kept finding that it just wasn't aligned with the client that she wanted to speak to. Wasn't aligned to her high, her higher self. Here we are on higher self.
[00:04:02] And I, it wasn't, hi, it wasn't aligned to where her business goals were. It wasn't aligned to where her, uh, monetary goals are. It just wasn't aligned. And we had a conversation and I really. Saw this incredible space where she could actually tap into six figure multi six figure seven figure clients. You know, entrepreneurs who need help with their health, who need help with their kind of fitness, health, wellbeing, mental health.
[00:04:36] All of the juicy stuff that we let go of when we start a business. Right? And we had this conversation. She was so fucking fired up and she was like, oh my God, Beck, this is it. This is the jackpot. Like this is where I've wanted to speak to. This is who I've wanted to speak to. This is who I wanted to step into serving.
[00:04:55] But oh my God, that feels like a complete edge for. Anyone right there, right now, you wanna speak to that higher quality, high caliber, high paying client, but it feels really fucking uncomfortable for you to do so. You'd rather crack out the educational content and keep attracting those beautiful clients who don't show up, who potentially don't pay their payment plans, who don't do the things that you've spoke about, who make up the excuses, and you're like, you know what?
[00:05:27] I'm so fucking done with those people. I'm so done with. Well, it comes to a few things because you know how the business, how your business would feel if you did that. If you attracted those types of clients, you know how your diary would feel if you were showing up for calls with those types of clients and you know how you would feel if you were to do that.
[00:05:53] So A actually, how do we step into this being your reality? Because quite frankly, it comes down to three things in my opinion. Number one is your positioning and your message. How are you calling them in? And this actually goes back very nicely to episode when I talked about raising your prices. I'll tag it in the show notes.
[00:06:19] It goes back to there of, of really getting solidified on who that is. Who are you calling in, what do they look like? How does it feel? How can you call them in through your me positioning and messaging. The second thing is your. When you are attracting the type of clients who are those high caliber, high quality, high paying, your vibe and your energy and the way you show up is potent.
[00:06:51] It really is. Now, this doesn't mean that you have to be in this high fucking vibe all the time. Hell no. A bullshit bullshit , a bullshit excuse I want you to get rid of. But the vibe that you bring and the energy that you bring, and the way that you bring it is very, very different to a higher caliber, higher paying, high quality client.
[00:07:15] And the last one and the most important is your belief system behind the scenes. What are you doing for you to fully. Embody what you're teaching, fully embody what you're selling, fully embody what you're telling your clients to do. That comes down to your belief system, and that comes down to the points in the day where no one is fucking watching because that is the most important.
[00:07:42] You know, if you had a TV camera, a TV crew following you around every single day, how different would you act if you knew someone was watching? It's gonna look different. I know it is because we all, when we're on our own, No one can see us. We like to get in our own way. We like to sabotage. We like to sit on Netflix for 15 hours.
[00:08:06] We like to say we're gonna do it another time. We're gonna start on Monday. You know, whatever Those excuses that come up. And ps it's, it's fine if you wanna sit on Netflix for 14 hours if that is what your higher self is wanting to do. However, people invest by the way you hold yourself. People invest by the vibe they feel from you online, and people invest from seeing you embody the reality they desire.
[00:08:42] Just a moment of pause there for that , because it really does come back down to that. And obviously there's things that you can shift and there's things that you can change in other areas, but I really do believe when you are stepping into the embodiment of that next level client that you want to attract, it does come down to position and a messaging, your vibe, your energy, and your belief.
[00:09:04] So how can we do that? What, what's, what sort of things starts to happen when we step into that? Well, really when we go back to what I was talking about with my client, she messaged me and I was like, look. , I'm looking at your stories and I can feel the energy there, but you're still speaking to those old people.
[00:09:26] You're still speaking to everyone. When we speak to everyone, we speak to no one, and she replied back and she was like, yep, Beck . I know I haven't been directly speaking to her. And it feels like such an edge. It feels so different. It feels so uncomfortable. It feels really out of the comfort zone, but it's time to lean in.
[00:09:49] And I loved that of her because she was so aware with what was going on. And then she did lean in. Now this client, It is probably one of the most embodied clients I have, and the way that she holds herself outside of our sessions, the work that she does on herself, the, the way she looks after herself, the way that she truly shows up for herself outside the business is truly, truly powerful.
[00:10:14] And I said to her, look, I nearly said her name then . I said, look, you already are the embodiment of what those people want. You already have that. You already do that, and you already be that. Now that is powerful because you can show that, and actually you. are really standing in alignment of your message Right now.
[00:10:41] You are really standing in alignment of what you are teaching or what you are preaching or what you are putting out there, and I want you to remember insert name, . Keep going to say a name. I want you to remember that actually, yes, it feels really fucking easy for you to do that already. It feels really easy for you to get up and make a green smoothie.
[00:11:03] It make it feels really easy for you to. Look after yourself, go to the gym. All of the things that all of my clients write down in their, their hypnosis questionnaires that they wanna be doing, she does all of that, and it's very easy for her to do that because she's done it for such a long time. She's been in the fitness industry and she's really embedded those habits.
[00:11:22] So for her, it feels easy. And that's why she feels, oh, I can't keep showing this because this is just really fucking easy for me. And I'm like, look, these people that you are attracting are not doing this right now. This is their biggest hurdle. Their biggest hurdle right now is drinking enough fucking water.
[00:11:43] So show that. Show that in yourself. Show that on your page. Show that in your stories, not just drinking water, you know what I mean? And actually, because it feels easy to you, doesn't mean that it's easy to your ideal. And this is what happens time and time and time again. I had another client who was doubting her abilities to help clients, and it was stopping her from selling.
[00:12:08] But actually what truly it was, is it just felt really fucking easy for what she, what she taught. So she was like, well, God, like is it, does it, is it this easy? Is it this easy? Like, do I, is this how it is? And I'm like, well, yes it is for you, but not for your ideal clients. Really believing and stepping into that and the belief system that really holds you in.
[00:12:32] That is the trust. It is the power. It is fully embodiment of who you are, what you do, what you've achieved, and how you are, how you are helping your clients. That's where it comes from, the belief, the trust, the power within you. And if that's not there, and if you don't trust yourself, and if you don't believe in yourself, and if you don't believe that you can help clients in the way that you want to, then why would they sign with you?
[00:13:03] Why would they? Because you can feel that, right? You can feel that energy. You can feel the energy of someone who is stuck in victim online versus someone who is like, this is me. This is what I do. Come work with me or don't. Whatever. I fucking love what I do, , you can really feel the difference. And that is why when you really start to embody that person, embody your higher self, embody that energetic match to your ideal clients, that's when it starts to really shine through.
[00:13:35] But it has to happen from the backend because embodiment. Allows you to become an energetic match to your ideal, ideal clients. It does. It's so, so powerful and it shines through your content. It shines through the way you sell. It shines through the way you speak. It shines through the energy that you show up online.
[00:13:54] But actually all of that is a byproduct of looking at the embodiment that you are doing behind the scenes. Because the moment that you dive into working through embodiment from your belief system, from your trust, from your knowing, from your owning of you, yourself, what you do, your content, you're selling, all of that, the attraction really starts to shift.
[00:14:21] So I want you to lean in. If you've been sitting there going, you know what? I am so ready to attract that client that I've been dreaming about working with. Have a moment. What does she look like? How is she showing up? How do you want to bring the energy to align with her? Because it's gonna come from you.
[00:14:43] It's gonna be that energetic vibrational match that's going to pull her towards you. You are never gonna know how. , you're never gonna know how, how she finds you. You can do all of the things that you need to do, but really becoming that power, that trust, that self-belief behind, you know what, yes, I freaking can, I can lean into that.
[00:15:06] It is an, it is edgy for me right now. It does feel a little bit squeaky bu time, but I am ready. And that comes from the embodi. Wow, I'm so passionate about this. So really start to look at how you're showing up for yourself. How are you leading yourself? How are you leading yourself behind the scenes?
[00:15:26] What does that look like? What needs to change? Is it belief work? Do we need to do some, some belief work on, on how you believe? You can help your clients or how you believe you can help your clients get the transformation if that's not there, we need to have a look at that. We need to dive into that. Is it the energy that you are bringing?
[00:15:45] Is it the way that you're speaking to them? Is it your positioning and messaging? Are you just cracking out 20,000 educational pieces of content and not drawing that ideal client in that higher caliber? The high quality, the high ticketed client does not want educational content. They. Feel a certain way.
[00:16:03] They want to think a certain way. They want to be shifted and reframed and pushed and pulled in a different direction because they are ready. Oh gosh. There is so much to this. I might even break this podcast down a little bit further, but just wanted to give you a food for thought. How embodied are you in what you're telling your clients to do?
[00:16:23] How embodied are you in who you truly want to be and how embodied are you in how you are helping your clients? and how embodied are you in showing that? What does that look like? How differently would you show up? How differently would you sell? How differently would you trust yourself if you showed up in that energy of sheer like, this is me, this is what I do, and this is the client that I am attracting.
[00:16:52] How different would that. I'll leave it with you. See you on the next episode. Your love and support means the absolute world to me with this podcast. So if you have enjoyed the episode today, please make sure that you are sharing or reviewing or even rating the podcast because it allows me to get into more ear rolls.
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